Posts Categorized: Couple’s Therapy

What’s the #1 Training Topic YOU DID NOT GET in Grad School That Could Either Get You Sued or Fill Your Practice?

In recent years it has become apparent to therapists like Esther Perel, Terrence Real, and others that all therapists that treat couples and families need more training in sexuality, intimacy, and sexual dysfunction.  Up until 2015, there was no training in the Pacific Northwest for therapists wishing to add AASECT certification to their skillset. A… Read more »

The 5 Steps to Becoming an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Northwest Institute on Intimacy was founded to further the field of sex therapy by training therapists to be sex-positive, holistic providers of the couples and individuals they see in their office. There are many important reasons a therapist would want to get training in Sex Therapy. For more information see our blog post The # 1… Read more »

Can We Overcome This Affair?

Couples who have experienced an affair within the relationship often ask me, “Is it possible to overcome this?” The short answer is “Yes!” Their pain and difficulty notwithstanding, affairs have the possibility of occasioning new bonds that can be even more meaningful than couples had prior to their affairs. Getting to that point, however, takes… Read more »

The #1 Reason a Couple Will Be Dissatisfied with You

It’s a cold, late Tuesday evening. Your next clients are one of your most intriguing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) cases. You’ve met with them a total of four times so far and they have begun to see progress in their relationship. You’ve taken a relationship history, a detailed history of their family of origin, held… Read more »

Swept Away- Women’s Low Sexual Desire

Her eyes, with a mind of their own, lock onto their target. Her partner has just entered the café and wine bar. Light beams radiate in all directions behind them and Donna Summer’s song, ‘Love to Love You’ begins to play. As she watches her beloved saunter through the crowd, a wave of desire washes… Read more »