Posts Categorized: Intimacy

Sex, Self-Care & New Motherhood

“I don’t know how to put it exactly. I guess I just don’t feel like a sex kitten anymore, you know? I think something about this having a baby process has made me grow up. All of a sudden it’s like I want real intimacy.” I was chatting with a friend whose son was born… Read more »

What’s the #1 Training Topic YOU DID NOT GET in Grad School That Could Either Get You Sued or Fill Your Practice?

In recent years it has become apparent to therapists like Esther Perel, Terrence Real, and others that all therapists that treat couples and families need more training in sexuality, intimacy, and sexual dysfunction.  Up until 2015, there was no training in the Pacific Northwest for therapists wishing to add AASECT certification to their skillset. A… Read more »

The 5 Steps to Becoming an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Northwest Institute on Intimacy was founded to further the field of sex therapy by training therapists to be sex-positive, holistic providers of the couples and individuals they see in their office. There are many important reasons a therapist would want to get training in Sex Therapy. For more information see our blog post The # 1… Read more »

One More Reason to Love Oxytocin: The 30-Day Challenge

By: Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and Taylor Ulrey Collaboration and Reference: www.thebabbleout.com/health/oxytocin   Several months ago, a friend of mine told me she had begun having terrible menstrual cramps. I suggested that the next time she was on her menstrual cycle, she try masturbating to orgasm one of the days her cramps were bad. I explained… Read more »

The #1 Reason a Couple Will Be Dissatisfied with You

It’s a cold, late Tuesday evening. Your next clients are one of your most intriguing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) cases. You’ve met with them a total of four times so far and they have begun to see progress in their relationship. You’ve taken a relationship history, a detailed history of their family of origin, held… Read more »