Sex Therapists: Training Beyond the Norm

Sex is in our lives whether we like it or not; that’s the truth. We either have sex and talk about it, or we aren’t having sex and we’re talking about it. Or we think about it, but can’t talk about it, or want to talk about it but are too ashamed to. Sex has… Read more »


The #1 Thing You Must Do in 2019 for YOU!

A couple of years ago I decided at the very last minute to go to a tiny fishing village just south of Puerto Vallarta on the prompting of an 80 year old mentor.  I had been burning the candles at both ends. In my hands was a manuscript I had been working on for over… Read more »


Value of Mentors

The other day I was listening to the On Being podcast, with Krista Tippitt discussing friendship. She talked about getting advice in her twenties from a woman in her 50’s, about how you always want to have people in your life who are younger and older than you. That friend remained in Krista’s life well… Read more »


Sex, Self-Care & New Motherhood

“I don’t know how to put it exactly. I guess I just don’t feel like a sex kitten anymore, you know? I think something about this having a baby process has made me grow up. All of a sudden it’s like I want real intimacy.” I was chatting with a friend whose son was born… Read more »


What’s the #1 Training Topic YOU DID NOT GET in Grad School That Could Either Get You Sued or Fill Your Practice?

In recent years it has become apparent to therapists like Esther Perel, Terrence Real, and others that all therapists that treat couples and families need more training in sexuality, intimacy, and sexual dysfunction.  Up until 2015, there was no training in the Pacific Northwest for therapists wishing to add AASECT certification to their skillset. A… Read more »