Can We Overcome This Affair?

Couples who have experienced an affair within the relationship often ask me, “Is it possible to overcome this?” The short answer is “Yes!” Their pain and difficulty notwithstanding, affairs have the possibility of occasioning new bonds that can be even more meaningful than couples had prior to their affairs. Getting to that point, however, takes… Read more »


The #1 Reason a Couple Will Be Dissatisfied with You

It’s a cold, late Tuesday evening. Your next clients are one of your most intriguing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) cases. You’ve met with them a total of four times so far and they have begun to see progress in their relationship. You’ve taken a relationship history, a detailed history of their family of origin, held… Read more »


Swept Away- Women’s Low Sexual Desire

Her eyes, with a mind of their own, lock onto their target. Her partner has just entered the café and wine bar. Light beams radiate in all directions behind them and Donna Summer’s song, ‘Love to Love You’ begins to play. As she watches her beloved saunter through the crowd, a wave of desire washes… Read more »


Sex, Sexuality and Cancer

When you are coping with cancer and cancer treatment, your main focus probably has something to do with survival, which make perfect sense. As your team is assembled and a game plan mapped out, thoughts may wander to cancer’s effects on day to day living including sex and sexuality. After all, as humans we are… Read more »


Podcast – The Sexy Side of Marriage

The Medical Director of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, Dr Tina Schermer Sellers is interviewed by Michelle and Tony Peterson of the #Stay Married Blog for their Podcast’s second season in this fun blast on the Sexy Side of Marriage.  In it Tina talks about how to keep your marriage dynamic and erotic, what makes some… Read more »