Podcast – The Sexy Side of Marriage

The Medical Director of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, Dr Tina Schermer Sellers is interviewed by Michelle and Tony Peterson of the #Stay Married Blog for their Podcast’s second season in this fun blast on the Sexy Side of Marriage.  In it Tina talks about how to keep your marriage dynamic and erotic, what makes some…

Take the 30 Day Challenge – Save Your Marriage from the Tyranny of the Urgent

The other day, I was talking to a young colleague of mine – freshly minted with a marriage and a thriving clinical practice.  Life was busy and good … and all laid out.  A new house and kids were next on the agenda. “Yep, and then” I thought, “life gets nutso!!” Listening to her was…

Do You Still Flirt?

When working with people around intimacy, I often assess how a couple flirts.  Flirting between those who are dating is expected, but after years of being married or living together, people forget to flirt or even how to flirt. The reasons for flirting are so important because the lack of it can result in people…

How Sleeping Naked Can Save Your Marriage … And Why Talking Comes Last

A while ago the beloved and I got in a doozy of an argument.  Now, our arguments are not like four-alarm fires that cause everyone to run for the hills.  That type belonged in my childhood and first marriage.  Our conflicts are a bit more like an oceanic earthquake whose eruption is tempered by the…